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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/throwra_2929 on 2023-09-25 21:30:51.

My partner and I had made plans to go to a nice restaurant in town. I’d booked us the table and we were really looking forward to it. My gf then messages me and asks if she can invite her friend. I say no since it’s just meant to be us going out. She doesn’t let it go and invites her friend anyway and just tells me it’ll still be a good night.

I ask her why she even bothered asking me if she was going to ignore me anyway. My gf was planning to drive and we’d be leaving from our apartment and picking her friend up. My gf mentioned that I’d have to get into the back of the car. I told her no and that I’d be in the car before her friend and that her friend shouldn’t be going anyway. My gf just said she couldn’t ask her friend to sit in the back after she’dinvited her to join us.

She then mentioned that she was paying for her friends meal. I asked if she was paying for my meal aswell and she said no because it would cost too much. I just pointed out that in the 2 years we’ve been together I don’t actually think she’s bought me a meal once when we’ve been out yet she’s offering to buy her friends food on a night she wasn’t even invited on.

My gf accused me of making her feel bad but I just pointed out it seems like she values her friend a lot more than she does me but she just said I was starting arguments over nothing. AITA for not wanting her friend at the meal?