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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/After-Bullfrog5639 on 2023-09-26 10:22:40.

Long story short. Me, 26m and my gf, 26f recently had a fight about this topic. She got invited by a male friend of hers that she has had a small history with, to go with him to the city during saturday night. And i found out from him that he had invited her. She raged and told me that its NOT normal for a couple to let the other person know if they are heading out a saturday night with someone else, and i find this super odd.

I found her in a pub with this dude and he told me that he invited her and i knew nothing about this. I hadnt recieved a single invitation from her about this and ofc when she saw me (because i knew she headed out to the city and i wanted to join) she came to me but i kinda rejected her because i was kinda hurt from seeing her with this dude out on a bar.

I saw this dude when i entered the location and talked to him before she noticed me so i got some information from him cus he looked kinda dumbfounded when he saw me and just started spitting out facts.

He also told me that they frequently use to meet up and going out for drives and etc, and ive also never heard anything about this either.

And ofc i told her that’s wrong that couples dont usually tells eachother where they are going out and with who, and we ended up in a fight and she is now moving out apparently.

So reddit, AITA for rejecting her in a smallish manner when catching her with another dude out on the city during Saturday night?