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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Timely-Error-9679 on 2023-09-26 15:02:28.

My boyfriend Josh and I have been together since high school and are now in college. Yesterday I wanted to surprise him with breakfast so I went to his house. I knew his parents would be at work so I thought it was the perfect time to visit him.

When I got there, I knocked on his door for at least 30 seconds and their front door is pretty translucent so I could see and hear what was going on inside. I saw someone running out of his bedroom door then running back inside. He finally came out of his room and closed the door behind him and then opened the front door. He seemed confused as to why I was there. To be fair, I’ve never been to his house without confirming with him first but I thought it would’ve been cute.

His shirt was all scrunched up as if he had just put it on. He asked me what I was doing at his place and I just gave him a strange look and asked him who was inside. He said it was his sister. I was a bit skeptical but then his sister came out from the room and greeted me then went back in his room.

I decided to just give him the coffee and bagel and went home. Later that night, I texted him about what happened earlier and how it was weird the way he was acting. He became pretty defensive as if I was accusing him of something. He told me he doesn’t want to be with someone who thinks so disgustingly of him and hasn’t responded to any of my messages yet. AITA for insinuating something strange was happening between my boyfriend and his sister?