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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Throwaway329987 on 2023-09-26 21:01:22.

My (22M) brother (35M) has spent his life in and out of jail. He was arrested again a couple months ago for god knows what. He posted bail through a bondsman and was released.

Long story short, I just happend to be sitting in my dinning room eating dinner, when there’s a knock on the door. I open it and it’s a man wearing a bullet proof vest . He looks confusingly at a piece of paper, and asks, " is ____ here right now". I told him that ___ is my brother and he dosent live here, the man then proceedes to tell me that my brother missed court and the bondsman is out for $25,000, and they’re looking for him. He asked if I knew where to find him

I gave the man an address for a friends house that my brother goes to 90% of the time for parties, drugs, etc.

Well they caught him there and now his bail has been revoked and he’s back in jail. No bail bonds company will lend to him now and no other friends or family can afford to give him the money. I’m sure as hell not giving him anything after the stunt he pulled. He’ll just have to stay in jail untill his trial now.

My mom, aunt, sister, and grandma have all been blowing up my phone the past few days with messages on facebook about how much of a “terrible person” I am for “getting my poor brother in trouble”.

I’m starting to feel a little guilty now, but I don’t appreciate him possibly getting me arrested or worse by lying and using my address.

AITA?