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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Wesollsa on 2023-09-27 05:31:22.

My(18m) mom(54) started dating her fiancé (22) two years ago. He was my little sister’s babysitter.

He asked her to rehome our cat before he moves in. When I found out I begged her not to. We argued before coming to an arrangement.

Mom gave the cat to my dad who I went to live with. Dad was very happy when he heard the offer and accepted. Mom’s boyfriend moved in with her and my little sister.

Now mom’s asking me to attend her wedding. I would have to take a four hours flight to get there which she said I should pay for myself, along with the flight back. I don’t want to use up that much of my own savings at this point and I don’t feel right asking my dad for that money either.

She said I’m being selfish and should think of her first sometimes, telling me I have to be there for her.