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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/tokyomew1 on 2023-09-27 11:05:42.

So some context : I’m in a very happy and healthy relationship with my 21 year old bf. After dating awhile we’ve been sexually active at his place (his mom knows and doesn’t care). Been doing this for months and somehow my parents found out…(I’m guessing they saw my car at his place).

My parents are hispanic, conservative and religious Christians. So my mom made a huge deal out of this. She started crying, calling me a slut, saying I’m a dissapointment and embarrassment to the family. It honestly broke my heart because my biggest fear was to be a dissapointment to my parents. She continued to say that I’m a horrible human being along with my bf for having the audacity to have sex before marriage. That she hopes he leaves me for a pure woman because I am a filthy whore turns out. She ends by saying she’ll never see me the same and won’t be kicking me out, that she’ll happily be there for me when my relationship with my bf ends. It’s been 2 days and I can’t look at my parents without breaking down.

I’m honestly really hurt by this. My biggest fear was being a dissapointment and here my mother is just confirming it. Any advice or thoughts are appreciated