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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Ordinary_Reserve_949 on 2023-09-29 22:24:47.

I’m (19) the youngest in the family and i have 5 older brothers. Theres a big age difference between my brothers, and I. We’ve never been close but I get along with 3 out of my 5 brothers.

I don’t know the 2 don’t like me, they just don’t. One of them who i’ll call Levi would verbally abuse every chance he got (I was 15, and he was 25), I needed, and still am in therapy. He stopped but blamed it all on his struggles. He hasn’t apologized, and clearly still hates me. The other who i’ll call Zane made it clear he wants nothing to do with me, he hasn’t said anything but he acts different every time i’m around him.

Neither of them have gone to birthdays, sports events, or even my graduation. The graduation part was a big deal in my family, but my parents said they don’t have to be in my life if they don’t want to. Everyone eventually forgot about it.

So heres the problem: Zane is getting married soon. Everyone in the family is invited but me. I want to go to his wedding. I don’t hate Zane, and I’d like to get closer to him one day

So I asked him why I wasn’t invited, which he ignored. I’ll admit I kept bothering him on why I wasn’t invited, and why he hated me so much. I guess I made him snap because he sent me a bunch of hateful messages.

I was upset, and talked to a friend, and she told me I should talk to my brothers. So I did, and showed them the texts. Levi sided with Zane, however the other 3 aren’t happy and theyre thinking of not attending the wedding.

Zane is upset at this, and he called me saying I was trying to ruin his wedding, turn his brothers against him, and that I can’t accept rejection. My parents aren’t happy with Zane, but don’t think my brothers should withdraw from the wedding. AITA?