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The original was posted on /r/AskMen by /u/BrazilianDeepThinker on 2023-09-30 16:43:37.

Hi everyone, my first post here

For some context, my university has LOTS of international students, like hundreds every semester.

So, I was getting to know a girl who is also from my homeland, and we got each other quite well, but after she made 2 other friends (also from our homeland) she became to talk, go out and all stuff with her 2 friends around.

Last Wednesday was a party organized by some old students so international students could get to know each other. And in that party I got to know some crazy but super nice spanish guys, and this guys actually made me the following question:

• Those 3 friends of you, you speak their language right? Do they know how to speak english? Because they don’t talk to anyone else besides them.

In the moment I laughed a lot, but when I got home and thought better on it, I kinda understand his point, and I don’t know why, all my interest for her was vanished.So I was hoping to know if I should not consider this, or if anyone else got similar stories.