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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/SincerelySasquatch on 2023-10-01 05:15:33.

I just think I’m done with sex. Sex gives me diseases and pregnancy. When I got an std we were using a condom, when I got pregnant I had an iud in, so it’s not like i wasn’t being careful. I rarely orgasm from sex due to medicine I’m on, and most men are mediocre at it. I just feel like it’s a lot of risk for very little reward. I regret the vast majority of men I’ve had sex with. I just want to kind of get myself off and not even have sexual conversations with men anymore. If I date again I don’t really want to have sex tbh. I’m not asexual, I’m fairly sexual, I just feel… I guess disillusioned? I feel like I’ve always placed a big value on sex because i always got my validation from men, but i need to learn to love myself and be happy with myself. Just the last few months I’ve gained the capability to give myself orgasms so i feel less dependent on men anyway.