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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/FreedomAnarchy on 2023-10-01 11:13:24.
My bf is a very social butterfly. Love it, he makes friends everywhere he goes and it’s lovely really. Glad he can feel comfortable everywhere. I don’t mind the female gender being in his friend groups. I really couldn’t care less.
It’s the weird ones that pop up every month. Like him befriending a girl he called “hot” before to his friends… and then having deep conversations in DM right after. While he rarely even wants to text me, he dms them and talks to them for days/hours on topics he’d say to me: “idk what u want me to say” it’s almost as if I’m a stupid puppy dog. He can’t hold a conversation with me to save his LIFE so often yet he loves talking to women he calls hot and other things to his friends. He loves befriending peoples crushes, it’s freaking creepy.
Whenever I mention “oh didn’t u call her hot asf last time, and u said you wouldn’t add her anywhere. Why is she in ur dms?” He would rage and lose it on me. “I never called her hot!” It’s literally …… what??? While his friends know damn well
Not only that, it has happened before where he had a female show him her nudes for a nude art book she made of herself. And fought me that it’s okay?.. she was the same woman who said “marriages don’t stand when someone has enough lust ” TO HIM
Not only that, there’s so many weird cases
Yet he pleads he loves me and wants to marry me… I’m confused.
Like the relationship goes great until he starts talking to a random female he low-key wants to smash but denies.
I’m at a loss. He did a lot for me, including saving me from a killing by my family . I do believe he loves me but there seems no way to work on things when he fights instead