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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/StruggleFun3270 on 2023-10-01 11:55:03.

My husband is selfish in bed. He gets off and doesn’t bother about me. I didn’t get orgasm in our first 5yrs of marriage and whenever I brought it up He argued that I was having orgasm but I didn’t know- I married a virgin…. One day, after his shoddy job, i did a ride on his legs and I got an orgasm- that was my very first orgasm because I felt it in my very core. Some days ago, he got off after his shoddy job and I practically begged him to finger me so that I could orgasm . He grudgingly did but in few minutes he slept off and I had to take his fingers from off my vjS. Coupled with a lot of things, Im having a strong feeling he’s not really into me. I don’t get hugs/nonsexual touchs, kisses, romance, dates, seductive stares, he doesn’t appreciate my looks/outfit, he finds it difficult to talk to me without the attention of his phone, he’s always in a hurry when I’m talking to him, he forgets practically everything I tell him - down to my schedule. We’ve been married for 8yrs but I’m so tired. Are my being childish and unrealistic ?