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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/walkitoff23 on 2023-10-01 15:30:36.

Whats good everyone. I made a post yesterday about men not wanting to do home chores and how my brother don’t do shit around the house. I deleted the post because it got overwhelming lol. Ok so i talked to my brother and he literally said

“ well home chores is for women, you can just say help us out and not cover it as a ‘life skill’ i got to learn. I don’t have to know how to use the laundry. I can have it washed”

I said “you will eventually marry someone, or leave alone at some point. Whatchu gonna do.”

He went “i will hire help if i can and when i get married, i can help but house chores are for women. That’s how it’s always been. Why do you want it to change.” wtff🤯

I ended the convo with “because it’s not the 1800. Our parents were wrong to raise you this way. hopefully you will change after time.I wouldn’t want to marry a guy who cant do the basic stuff around the house. Look it up and see how other men feel about. get other perspectives. Be progressive” and mentioned his friend(B) who brushes in the same sink he washes his dishes and hair all over his shower drain, living like a caveman. The only thing B talks about is how he went to a private school and his rich friends, the cool car he drove back home and how he was raised by a maid. Whoever dates him will block him after seeing how he lives. My brother knows he can’t live with someone like him and yet he doesn’t make an effort to be better. Thats him if he lived alone so yeah

I’m literally blown because we have never talked seriously about this before so to hear how he actually feel made my skin crawl. I’m APPALLED.