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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Hopeful_Reporter6731 on 2023-10-01 20:17:43.

Okay so I’ve been seeing this man since June. Sex with him is strange because he’s just not vocal. For example, when I give him head he’s not really vocal but his body language kind of helps me out. I can tell when he’s liking what I’m doing because his body tenses up, so I’ll do that until he cums. Then after he cums in my mouth (which I love) he stays hard but I have no idea if he’s enjoying it. He’ll put my head in a position to keep sucking him (thankfully) and then he comes again. I know sex is different with everybody and I’m trying to learn him, but it’s really hard because he’s not vocal at all!!

He told me the other day our sex is boring, and I agree mainly because he isn’t vocal, but I really want to figure this out. He said he wants to be fucked back but I can’t know how if he’s not giving me cues, or moving my hand places he wants them. I’m use to sex w a girl bc my last relationship was with a female for almost 2 years. I told him this and to bear with me as I haven’t had sex with a man in a long time. He said okay thats understandable. I know men are less vocal, but man does it make sex a little bit more tricky.

I want to please him and make him happy, but it’s hard when he’s not vocal. I don’t even want to talk dirty to him because I feel like he’s not going to verbally respond with moans at the least.

It’s just unfamiliar territory at this point. And to clarify, I’ve had sex with more men (only 2 women) but the women I’ve been in actual relationships with so the sex is more