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The original was posted on /r/sugarlifestyleforum by /u/midcancerrampage on 2023-10-01 15:58:38.

My SR is a little unusual in that my SD is single, not busy and intensely into me, so we’re in an exclusive SGF relationship where meeting frequency is high (3-4x a week). He’s a good dude, respectful of my personal time and I get a five figure allowance.

I started off in the mindset that I’m supposed to be a dazzling dream girl. Dressed impeccably, ate daintily, always poised, bring the eye candy, never let him see me without makeup. Fast forward a couple months and after meeting like 4 times a week, I’ve gotten so comfortable in his presence that it’s gradually broken down my walls. We kinda ran out of fresh date ideas, so when racking our heads for what to do while hanging out, at some point I’m like, “well you know what I really need right now…”

And so I find myself in the grocery store in my pajamas with no makeup on, watching him buy me apple juice, shampoo and tampons. LOL

He’s been sweet about it so far and hasn’t complained about me involving him in my mundane errands like grocery shopping or assembling furniture. But I wonder if I’m gradually eroding the “magic” of an SR by letting him into the maintenance backroom parts of my life? Am I needlessly burdening/boring him? Could it cause him to stop seeing me as a special ethereal luxury lover worth paying for?

Is an SB supposed to be a pure fantasy, or can she also be an itchy scratchy human being?