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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/nlima2688 on 2023-10-01 21:50:38.

So I(f35) went through my texts recently and realized that all of my friends have not text or called me but I reach out to them often. Unfortunately I have been going through some hard things and well turns out I don’t have many who care enough to check up and say hi. I text all of the people I concerned to be good friends (some were best friends in highschool) back in July…not a single one has reached out since. I feel like I have to chase my friends to have an actual relationship. I am so tired of it and so sad. Does anyone else feel like their friends only talk to them if they need something? Why is it so hard to find friends who care ?