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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Whipped-_-cream on 2023-10-02 00:59:40.

My husband passed on Sept 19. I’m very sad to say I didn’t make it there to hold his hand as he left this existence and that is something I will live with forever. However, 6 days later I discovered he was cheating on me for most of our relationship. Confirmed by emails he somehow didn’t delete with pictures of her naked in my apartment (thank god not in my bed). He even bought her sex toys last April (around when we got engaged). No emails after that, but that means nothing really. He didn’t protect me or her from this. I’ve got every detail of her life, her full name and address, phone number & email. She lived around the corner from the hospital he was in, I wonder if she visited him while I wasn’t there when he was dying. I’m supposed to pick up his cremated remains next week and spread them where he wanted. Not sure what to do now, to be honest.

What I want from Reddit is this… What can I do to help feel better after this betrayal? I want to be mature but I also want to do the most nasty things to her. Help me brainstorm lovely subreddit!

I’m not sure how to link my other posts but in my post history you can see when everything happened.