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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Pollock701 on 2023-10-02 17:56:58.

Two years ago my sister married her high school love after they were together for about 8 years. For their wedding I bought them a pretty expensive couch (7.6k$) because it was on their wedding wishlist for the closer family. Back then she was absolutely stunned by the gift and said it was the best one she got. However, they got divorced around half a year later and I still have no clue why. But after a year break, 6 months ago they got back together and a while ago they decided that they want to marry again. And again in a church with a big wedding like the first time. I have nothing against that but today she send me and my family another wishlist for this wedding and my family, who all gifted her stuff worth around 500-600$ last time, don’t have a problem with that. But since my gift was more than 10x expensive than that I informed her that she’s not getting another one unless it’s a gift card about 100$. She completely freaked out and said that’s her wedding and how I could be so selfish. My family is on her side so I don’t know if iam the asshole or not?