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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Fluid_Support_7279 on 2023-10-03 00:53:58.

This past weekend there was a 20 year anniversary party for the company my husband works for. My hubs (M 49 and I his wife F 43) attended. That’s where I met, we will call her EZ BREEZE (F 26). She proclaimed that she had learned alot from my husband on the job since 2017 and that she often refers to him as a father figure, only she didn’t say it that way to me. She said he’s my daddy at work. They are friends on FB and from what I can gather she has only friended my husband from work since 2017 since he and I share almost all of our friends including his work friends. Am I the AH for thinking this is inappropriate work behavior? He literally said that the term daddy in this case was used as a term of endearment. Either I’m over reacting, my husband is cheating or he’s an absolute idiot. To be fair she did seem genuinely protective of my feelings (but side chick like, even if there isn’t anything going on) and she is single which is not a mark against her. I feel like this is my husbands fault more than anything and that is why I laid into him so hard, just utter dissapointment.